I am cautious when it comes to self-help advice. This is because when people ask me for self-help sort of advice they are generally asking for advice about how to achieve external goals,
In the Broadest sense, there are two kinds of people, or perhaps better, two “ways of being”. Competitive or cooperative.
We all do things that can either be constructive or destructive in our lives. Constructive activities are things that build you up, improve yourself and make a positive contribution and give something to the world around us.
We have two broad ways of using our attention. The one is expressed in the statement, “He’s looking at me” and the other one is expressed in the statement, “He’s listening to me.”